2IF

Respect that Secondary Infertility is just as hard, if not harder for many. When a mama has a baby (or two, or more) and she suffers from infertility when trying to conceive another, some argue that it can be even more frustrating than the first time around. Our bodies physically ache, yearning to feel the kicks and the hiccups once more. The sound of a newborn’s cry can make our breasts tingle to be full of milk. Our bodies already know how to conceive, grow and birth a child… you’d think we’d be able to do it again. Sometimes we’re not.
Never, ever suggest that she’s being ungrateful for the child she already has. That is likely an emotion she is struggling with all on her own. Just be the loving and listening friend that you are and offer to babysit from time to time if she needs to visit her RE or acupuncturist. Kids are very rarely welcome in the waiting room of an RE’s office… for good reason.

Good Article:
http://www.mamasaywhat.com/10-ways-to-support-a-friend-dealing-with-infertility/?fb_action_ids=10152501496039068&fb_action_types=og.likes&fb_source=aggregation&fb_aggregation_id=288381481237582